early marriage?better think twice

A fren of mine which i already kno her like a 5 yrs back got married in a very young age.I kno her while i'm

still studying at KL.Very young k,she just 19 when she decide to settle down everything n that guy was only 20.Parents dia mmg x stuju sgt2.But she is really extremely extraordinary STUBBORN.I dun kno pe yg die nmpk kt guy tuh.He got NOTHING,jobless,bad-temper,not so good-looking,like to hang out with useless frens on a nite time,too many too list,u name it.I was berbuih mulut advice her to think twice,but she dun want to LISTEN.That time,that guy was everything to her,her world,her soul.I really dont agree wif da phrase LOVE is BLIND.LOVE is not BLIND k.got nothing to do with LOVE.But da ppl who are in love with wrong person are really blind.Let me BOLD it TOTALLY BLIND.She got a baby boy after 1 yr marriage.

For an early stage,i think she is hepy enough to live wif that guy.Biasela,bru lg kn sumenye indah2 blaka

lautan api pun sanggup direnangi.But,nearly 2 yrs i heard something wents wrong wif da marriage,IDK whether it is rumours or REALITY,coz like someone told me,so i dun simply believe wut ppl told me,n

i dun want to ask her,dun want to be a busy body neither,its her PERSONAL LIFE n if its TRUE,she

choose to be that way rite,so ler her HANDLE it.

I move back to png afta i finish my study,n i didn't hear anything from her anymore,and yesterday was really

SURPRISE me.yes yesterday,i got text from her, "babe where are u now?"can i cme to ur hse wif my bby?"

I was lost for words k.I end up call her n she told me everything,about her marriage,it was on a rox anyway.

Her husband was really useless,jobless,drunk almost every night,main judi,lpak wif his fren till morning n da WORST part was he is kaki pukul.I really hate this part,for me guys are not brave enough to beat a gurls.

What gurls can do,she dun have any strong to fight back k,for me he is a LOSER.BIGGEST LOSER ever.She start to cry on our conversation,she really regret now,but da thing is there is no turning back.

I'll try to calm her,n advice her to sit wif her husband and discuss.Dissappear herself wont settle anything.She have to face it n let her family kno bout it too.She was really afraid,regret,embarassed to face her parents.She was thanks to me for listen to her problems before we hang up.

I was really pity her,yes it is her fault too,but menyesal pun tiada gunanya lg kn..i'll pray for her that HAPPINESS will cme to her life one day.

errr,early marriage?ppl,better think twice.